You can browse and start conversations on a free membership, with some limits. VIP and VIP+ unlock more messaging, search and visibility tools. 1, 3 and 6 month plans renew automatically until you cancel. 12 month plans are a single payment and do not renew.
Weekly prices are for comparison only. You pay the amount charged up front for the whole plan. Always check the upgrade screen for the exact amount and currency before you pay, because offers can change and can vary by location.
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VIP plans
| Plan | Amount charged | How it is paid |
|---|---|---|
| VIP, 1 month | You pay $42.81 up front. | Automatically renews at $42.81 until you cancel. That works out at $9.99 a week, shown for comparison. |
| VIP, 3 months | You pay $102.73 up front. | Automatically renews at $102.73 until you cancel. That works out at $7.99 a week, shown for comparison. |
| VIP, 6 months | You pay $128.31 up front. | Automatically renews at $128.31 until you cancel. That works out at $4.99 a week, shown for comparison. |
| VIP, 12 months | You pay $260.19 up front. | A single payment of $260.19. It does not renew. That works out at $4.99 a week, shown for comparison. |
Prices on this page are a guide. Prices and offers can change and can vary by location. The upgrade screen shows the exact amount and currency before you pay.
Weekly prices are for comparison only. You pay the amount charged up front for the whole plan.
1, 3 and 6 month plans renew automatically at the same amount until you cancel. 12 month plans are a single payment and do not renew.
Prices are shown in US dollars. If your card is in a different currency, your bank may add a conversion fee.
Some members may be offered a different price or an introductory offer. The upgrade screen shows the price that applies to you.
VIP+ plans
| Plan | Amount charged | How it is paid |
|---|---|---|
| VIP+, 1 month | You pay $51.39 up front. | Automatically renews at $51.39 until you cancel. That works out at $11.99 a week, shown for comparison. |
| VIP+, 3 months | You pay $128.44 up front. | Automatically renews at $128.44 until you cancel. That works out at $9.99 a week, shown for comparison. |
| VIP+, 6 months | You pay $154.03 up front. | Automatically renews at $154.03 until you cancel. That works out at $5.99 a week, shown for comparison. |
| VIP+, 12 months | You pay $338.41 up front. | A single payment of $338.41. It does not renew. That works out at $6.49 a week, shown for comparison. |
Prices on this page are a guide. Prices and offers can change and can vary by location. The upgrade screen shows the exact amount and currency before you pay.
Weekly prices are for comparison only. You pay the amount charged up front for the whole plan.
1, 3 and 6 month plans renew automatically at the same amount until you cancel. 12 month plans are a single payment and do not renew.
Prices are shown in US dollars. If your card is in a different currency, your bank may add a conversion fee.
Some members may be offered a different price or an introductory offer. The upgrade screen shows the price that applies to you.
What each tier includes
Getting started
| Feature | Free | VIP | VIP+ |
|---|---|---|---|
| Browse profiles | Included | Included | Included |
| Activity Feed, Spaces, polls and articles | Included | Included | Included |
| Promote Me: intro messages sent on your behalf | Included | Included | Included |
| Notification centre | Limited | Full | Full |
| Profile edits | Limited | Unlimited | Unlimited |
Messaging and chat
| Feature | Free | VIP | VIP+ |
|---|---|---|---|
| Private messaging | Limited | Unlimited | Unlimited |
| Posting and commenting | Limited | Unlimited | Unlimited |
| Message read receipts | Not included | Included | Included |
| Chat rooms | Limited | Additional rooms | Additional rooms |
| VIP and Verified chat rooms | Not included | Included | Included |
| Create private group chats | Not included | Included | Included |
Finding matches
| Feature | Free | VIP | VIP+ |
|---|---|---|---|
| Search | Limited | Advanced, unlimited results | Advanced, unlimited results |
| See who likes you | Not included | Included | Included |
| Unlimited likes and rewinds | Not included | Included | Included |
| Like or match everyone at once | Not included | Included | Included |
| Free Super Matches each week | 1 | 3 | 3 |
| Free Boosts each week | Not included | 1 | 1 |
Standing out
| Feature | Free | VIP | VIP+ |
|---|---|---|---|
| Incognito | Not included | Included | Included |
| VIP badge | Not included | Included | Included |
| Priority profile placement | Not included | Not included | Included |
| Messages highlighted in other members' inboxes | Not included | Included | Included |
| Enhanced profile design | Not included | Not included | Included |
| VIP+ badge | Not included | Not included | Included |
Features can change, and not every feature is available on every site.
Boosts and Super Matches give your profile more visibility but do not guarantee matches or replies.
How to choose
If you mainly want to look around, start on Free and see whether the limits still let you have a real conversation. If you want unlimited messaging, advanced search, Incognito and the ability to see who likes you, VIP is the usual upgrade. VIP+ adds priority placement, an enhanced profile design and the VIP+ badge.
Teachers who want a quieter presence often look first at Incognito, which is included with VIP and VIP+. Features are described in more detail on the features page, and the steps for joining are in how it works.
Questions about plans
Is joining free?
Yes. Everyone starts on a free membership. You can browse profiles, like and match, use the Activity Feed and Spaces, and send and receive messages, with some limits. VIP and VIP+ are optional upgrades.
How do the plans compare?
Longer plans cost less per week. On VIP, 1 month works out at $9.99 a week, 3 months at $7.99, 6 months at $4.99 and 12 months at $4.99.
Why is there a weekly price and an amount charged?
The weekly price is what a plan works out at per week, so plans are easy to compare. You pay the amount charged up front for the whole plan. VIP for 12 months, for example, works out at $4.99 a week and is one payment of $260.19.
Does my membership renew automatically?
The 1, 3 and 6 month plans renew automatically at the same amount until you cancel. The 12 month plans are a single payment and do not renew.
How do I cancel?
You can cancel at any time, and you keep your membership until the end of the period you have paid for. Our Terms and Conditions explain how.
Do you give refunds?
Refunds are covered in our Terms and Conditions, which explain when one applies where you live.
Will I see the price before I pay?
Yes. The upgrade screen shows the exact amount and how often it renews before you pay, and that is what you are charged. It can differ from this page, as prices and offers can change and vary by location.
Why might the price I am offered differ from this page?
Prices and offers change from time to time and can vary by location. The upgrade screen always shows the exact amount before you pay.
What do I get with VIP?
Unlimited messaging, posting and commenting, advanced search with unlimited results, see who likes you, unlimited likes and rewinds, read receipts, messages that stand out in other members' inboxes, Incognito, private group chats, VIP and Verified chat rooms, access to additional chat rooms, and 3 free Super Matches and 1 free Boost every week.
What does VIP+ add?
Everything in VIP, plus priority placement for your profile, an enhanced profile design and the VIP+ badge.
Are Super Matches and Boosts included?
VIP and VIP+ include 3 free Super Matches and 1 free Boost every week. Free members get 1 free Super Match a week. Anyone can buy more in packs. Free Boosts do not build up, so you hold at most one at a time, and they end if your membership ends. Boosts you buy are yours to keep.
What are Super Matches and Boosts?
A Super Match lets you send a message to someone that they will always be able to read and reply to, and prioritises your profile to them for 24 hours. A Boost gives your profile priority placement across the app for 60 minutes.
Can I move from VIP to VIP+ later?
Yes. A VIP member can add VIP+ for an additional payment, billed weekly as a separate subscription. You can cancel it on its own at any time, and it ends automatically if your VIP membership ends.
Is there a free trial?
No. Joining is free, and you can upgrade whenever you choose.
Full terms, including cancelling and refunds, are in our Terms and Conditions.
Choose a plan after you have a profile
Signup Here on a free membership, then upgrade if you want to.